1.Dreamers who dream only on small dreams.
Many people whose greatest achievements in life are behind them. A
dreams in the past is a person whose life is over. That person needs to
a dream in the future in order to come back to life. It is also people
who still celebrate in getting good grades, being prom king or queen,
from a prestigious university, or being in the military. In other
best days are behind them.
2.Dreamers who dream only on small
dreams. These types of
dreamers will dream only small
dreams because they want to feel confident they can achieve them. The
is, even though they know they can achieve them, they never do achieve
These type of dreamers are often the most dangerous. They live like
turtles, tucked away in their own quiet padded room. If you knock on
the shell and steal
a quick look in one of the openings, they often take out and bite you.
lesson is let dreaming turtles dream. Most are not going anywhere and
perfectly fine with them.
3.Dreamers who have achieved their
dreams and have not set a new dream.
This is an example of
someone who has successfully achieved his dream and continues to live
dream. “Twenty years ago, I dreamed of becoming a doctor. I became a
doctor and now I am just bored with life. I enjoy being a doctor but
something is missing.”
4.Dreamers who dream big dreams
but do not have a plan on how to achieve them...so they wind up achieving
people say, “I’ve just had a major
breakthrough. Let me tell you about my new plan,” or “This time things
different,” or “I’m turning over a new leaf,” or I’m going to work
off my bills, and invest,” or “I just heard of a new company coming to
and they are looking for someone with my qualifications. This could be
my big break.” “Very few people achieve their dreams on their own.
People like this
often try to achieve a lot, but they try to do it on their own. People
this should keep dreaming big, find a plan, and find a team that will
make their dreams come true.”
5.Dreamers who dream big achieve
those dreams and go on to dream bigger dreams.Most of us would like to be this kind of person.
The network marketing business encourages people to dream big dreams and
achieve their big dreams. Many traditional businesses don’t want people to
dream personal dreams.
KILLING THE DREAM
aware of people who want to kill your dreams. There is nothing worse than a
friend or loved one killing your dreams.” There are people who may innocently
or not so innocently, say things such as:
can’t do that.”
is too risky. Do you know how many people fail?”
be silly/stupid. Where do you come up with such ideas?”
it is such a good idea, why hasn’t someone else done it before?”
I tried that years ago. Let me tell you why it won’t work.”
People who kill other people’s
dreams are people who have given upon their own dreams.
“People who dream small dreams
continue to live lives as small people.”
Questions to consider:
What goals did you set for yourself when
you were starting out?
To be worth a million pesos by a certain
To own your own business?
do a lot of traveling?
learn to play a sport or dance well?
gain a sense of inner peace?
do you consider your greatest accomplishment and how does that accomplishment
measure up to your expectation of yourself?
you consider yourself today the person you started out to be?
your Doctor were to tell you tomorrow that you were suffering
from an incurable
disease and had only a few months to live, what you most regret not having
do you want to be five years from now and what would you like to be doing? How
about 10 years from now? 20 years from now?
Who are the people you admire most and what could
you do to be more like them?
What do you least like about your life right
now, and how would you like to change it?
you able to devote enough time right now to the people who mean the most to
What would make you happy or, if you already
consider yourself happy, happier than you are today?
may be obvious questions,but the answer
are neither obvious nor easy, They require a lot of soul – searching and
probably some fact – gathering as well, because you may not have the
information you require to know specifically what you want.
To help you
identify your dream. The question are broken down into 7 specific areas:
1. Where do
I want to live?
A majority of the successful people
attribute a great measure of their success to a wise choice of place in which
to live and work.
2. What kind of work do I want to do?
There is no more need to be working at a
job you hate than there is to continue living where you don’t want to be or the excitement had meant more than the money.
3.What interests do I want to explore?
The right location sets the stage, the
right career gives you the resources, but the end purpose of both
is – or should be – to enable you to pursue your passions coincides with your pursuit of a living.Supposed you knew
thatyou had only 5 years to live, How
would you live those years? What experiences would you like to have? What
interests would you like to pursue?
I marry the right spouse?
can be living in the land of your fantasies, holding down your
dream job and
enriching/inspiring your life with the pursuit of your
interests, but if you’re
not sharing all this with your love ones,
your life will be as sour as month long milk. Part of the process
is to take a hard look at your personal
life. Try marriage
counseling if you’re not happy.
5.What do I want to give back to society?
reward available to those who help others can’t be bought
with money. It’s a
feeling that there’s a streak/line of
decency/politeness within you and we find
most rewarding is
when we can offer direct help to individuals. We
have never met
a happy selfish person. We need to have our skills in order to
make ourselves a valuable member of society. We can be living
where we most
want to be, doing what we most want to do,
pursuing the interests closest to
our heart and sharing it all with
a partner’s who seems heaven – sent and still
not fulfilled. If that
description sounds familiar to us, the restlessness we
be eliminated by a gift of time and talent from us to society.
6.How many years do I have in which to accomplish my
lot longer than we might think, the longer we live, the better our
extending life well beyond normal expectations.
7.How much risk can I stand?
much is required if you’re to realize your dreams? So with
ventured’, nothing gained. You can’t get to the fruit
without going out on a
limb/branch. In order to live an exciting
and rewarding life, you’ve got to
confront our fears of change
and only by doing so will you ever discover that moving to a new
location on changing jobs or even professions. Isn’t all that
a deal? The more we risk, the more we potentially gain. So how
much risk is involved in chasing our dreams?How
great a price
must we pay?
Pricing Your Dream
"The fulfillment of any dream, no matter how
small or big, requires an expense of mental, physical and emotional energy."